Find the Perfect Gift Amount
Not sure how much to give? Answer 6 quick questions and get a personalized gift range based on your country, relationship, and event type.
Guests traveling far are often expected to give less. Your presence matters most.
If you've already invested in stag/hen parties or outfits, a smaller gift is perfectly fine.
Frequently Asked Questions
Common questions about wedding gift amounts and etiquette
Wedding Gift Etiquette Guide
Everything you need to know about giving the right amount
How We Calculate Your Gift Amount
Our calculator uses a research-backed formula that considers six key factors: country-specific norms, event type, your relationship with the couple, whether you're attending solo or as a pair, travel costs, and any wedding party responsibilities. We pull from etiquette research by the Emily Post Institute, survey data from The Knot's 2024 Guest Study, and regional studies like the CitySafes Belgium wedding survey. The result is a range, not a single number, because etiquette is never one-size-fits-all.
Gift Etiquette by Country
Wedding gift norms vary significantly from country to country. Here's a quick overview of what's considered standard in each region we cover.
πΊπΈIn the United States, the average wedding gift in 2024 was $150 according to The Knot Guest Study. Close family members often give $150 to $300, while colleagues and acquaintances typically give $50 to $100. Cash and registry gifts are equally common.
π¬π§In the UK, guests traditionally base their gift amount on what they'd spend on a nice dinner out. Typical amounts range from Β£50 to Β£100 for friends, with close family giving more. Cash gifts have become increasingly popular.
π©πͺIn Germany, cash gifts (Geldgeschenke) are the norm. Friends typically give β¬50 to β¬100, while close family members may give β¬100 to β¬500 depending on their financial situation. According to German wedding tradition, guests sometimes aim to cover the approximate cost of their seat at the celebration.
π¦πΉAustrian wedding etiquette closely mirrors German norms, with cash being the preferred gift. Close family typically gives β¬100 to β¬300, while friends average β¬50 to β¬100. Presentation matters: decorative envelopes or creative cash displays are common.
π¨πSwitzerland has the highest gift averages in Europe. Friends typically give CHF 100 to 200, with close family often giving CHF 200 to 500. The higher cost of living is reflected in gift expectations.
π³π±Dutch wedding gifts tend to be more modest than in neighboring countries. Colleagues and acquaintances give β¬20 to β¬40, friends β¬35 to β¬75, and close family β¬50 to β¬150. Practicality is valued.
π§πͺBelgian research from CitySafes (2025) found that reception guests give an average of β¬65 per person, evening party guests β¬75, and full-day guests β¬110. According to etiquette expert Brigitte Balfoort, close family couples typically give β¬200 or more for a full celebration.
When You Might Give More
Consider giving on the higher end of the range if you are close family, if the couple is hosting an especially generous celebration, if you received a generous gift at your own wedding, or if you simply want to express extra appreciation for your relationship.
When It's Fine to Give Less
It's perfectly acceptable to give less if you're a student or early in your career, if you've already spent significantly on travel or accommodation, if you're contributing to a group gift, or if you have a wedding party role that required financial investment.
Our Sources
This calculator draws on research from the Emily Post Institute, The Knot 2024 Guest Study (surveying 1,000 recent wedding guests), CitySafes Belgium wedding research (2025), and regional etiquette guides from each country we cover. We update our data annually to reflect current norms.
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